I am still am having a bit of a holiday while my Mumma is visiting, so I have another guest post today. Rachel from The Mama Files is contributing todays story. She is sort of like my friend, but I have never actually met her in real life…..just in ‘blog world’. We do get along well, and I love her style of writing. Check out her funny post below on why she cries at stupid shit. I bet you anything you have cried at some of these things too. Please head over to her site to follow her as well š.
I used to think you only cried when you were sad. Since having a baby I’ve realised that is a) crap and b) that I am the world’s biggest sooky la-la. Hormonally, I have changed. I canāt deny that. Pretty much anything can set me off, and far from beating myself up, I have decided to embrace the random weep with gusto. I always say, ‘No reason’ when my husband asks why I’m crying, because sometimes I literally can’t put my finger on why I’m sobbing into one of the couch cushions. But on reflection, there usually IS a reason I’m losing the plot. They’re just never very good reasons – in fact, often they’re downright ridiculous reasons, often TV related, and nothing I want to actually say aloud. Like theseā¦
1. My Fitbit is missing (probably in the wash again) and my dad is caning me on the step count and keeps sending me Nar-nar-nar-look-at-me-I’m-at-the-top-of-the-leaderboard messages. I cannot believe I thought it was a good idea to give him a Fitbit as a present.
2. My hip hurts so much I sometimes spiral and convince myself I have leg cancer, and that I will not be around to watch Charlie grow up. He will be raised by another woman (my poor widowed husbandās second wife) and he will call her āmumā andā¦ well, itās a slippery slope, people.
3. Foxtel keepsĀ putting Kramer Vs. Kramer on the movie channel. I usually tune in during that bit in the park where Dustin Hoffman is telling Billy he won’t be living with him anymore. I can’t even.
4. My wardrobe is like a sardine can of bras that don’t fit or only have one underwire, undies that ride up my butt crack and beautiful knee-high bootsĀ IĀ haven’t worn for a yearĀ because of pregnancy and plantar faciitis. Instead, I’m getting around in big black clompy trainers. Sexy times.
5. The dryer has been broken FOREVER and when I rang EuromaidĀ to order a warranty repair guy they fobbed me off with instructions on resetting it with a non-existent button on the back.Ā That was two hours of cajoling the husband into lifting it off the shelf and looking for the button that I’ll never get back.
6. My stomach needs to spend about 576 hours at the gym. 7. It is near impossible to get to the gym when you have a small personĀ hanging off your leg like a koala 24/7.
8. I can’t remember the last time I went to the movies whichĀ kinda makes me feelĀ likeĀ I live on another planet.
9. I went to bed at midnight again and Charlie woke me up at 4am, crying. If you can’t beat ’em, join ’em, right?
10. I have to make dinner AGAIN.Ā It’s like laundry… cooking dinner never ENDS.
11. I keep turning on the kid’s channel in the hope there will be something new and amazing on there. Instead it’s always Numberjacks or Lah Lah’s Big Live Band, both of which make me want to brain myself. 12. The shower’s been leaking for six months and now a tile is falling off the wall and I just know the water is seeping into the wall and turning into a bigger problem. Not really sure who to call first so IĀ just don’t call anyone and eventually the guilt and worry about home maintenance (or lack thereof)Ā sends me running for the… yes, you guessed it, the couch cushions.
13. We’ve run out of English Breakfast tea. This is almost as bad as running out of Pinot Grigio.
14. I just watched a baby hippo get gored and die on the National Geographic channel, which made me weep like that hippo was my own child. Since becoming a mum I can no longer handle the circle of life which means I probably have to stop watching the National Geographic channel.
What are you crying about lately? Do you enjoy a good weep? Please share in the comments so as to help Rachel not feel like such a hot mess.
About Rachel, from The Mama Files
Iām Rachel, a journo, blogger and new mum living in Sydney with my husband and our baby, Charlie. The Mama Files isĀ my diary of sorts, and a way of making sense of the parallel universe Iām now living in. I mean, it looks like my old life, but without the late nights outĀ and cocktails and weekend sleep-ins and ability to leave the house without carting the contents of a BabycoĀ shop with me.
In addition, I puree (a lot). I know all the Teletubbies by name.Ā Iām up with the birds and Iām down with the baby babble and there are hours and hours of bottom patting and cuddling and singing My LittleĀ Teapot and smooching my bubbaās fat chipmunkĀ cheeks.Ā Some days, I canāt imagine doing anything else, ever. Other days I just want to run screaming to the nearest bar and throw myself headfirst into a bucket of vodka.
You can follow The Mama Files on Facebook and on the blog at http://themamafiles.com.au/
I cried through Grey’s Anatomy the other day because Derek died. I cry in any show someone dies. Even if I don’t watch the show and especially if it’s an animal. I even cried watching an ad once.
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Fair enough. That is a good reason to cry I think. I cried watching an ad once too. I also cried during that TV series ‘The Office’. It is a comedy, and I was crying!! I was pregnant at the time though :). Thanks for reading. x
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Haha. I cried through everything while pregnant! I reckon that’s a pretty darn good excuse! š
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I cry at TV constantly Haidee… you’re not alone š And hang on, wha… DEREK DIED IN GREY’S ANATOMY????
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Also, thanks for having me Kel. I noticed you chucked this up on #FridayFrolics, there’s probably some rule about commenting on your own guest post, but I dunno what it is. So yeah. Hope you’re having fun and not eating too many strawberries š
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No problem Rach! Thanks for helping me out with your guest post :). Yeah, I thought I would promote it a bit more for you. Who cares about rules!! Do what you want :). Haven’t touched the strawberries yet. They are way too special and sacred to eat š
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If I see that Hoopla Doopla show on ABC2 one more time, I may just cry š I can’t watch nature documentaries any more either. I almost cried over some ridiculous tv ad the other day, nothing special or particularly emotional, so I’m just putting that one down to severe sleep deprivation and being sick.
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I am with you!! That Hoopla Doopla show is really irritating! All us females cry over stupid shit. Thanks for reading Rachels Guest Post. And thanks for hosting too š xo
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I haven’t seen that show! Sounds like a good thing. And, oh, the nature documentaries. Why do all the baby animals have to die???
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It’s Australian. But it’s very annoying! Stay clear of that one.
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Haha! I hate how making dinner has to happen every day – I agree that it is upsetting! #fridayfrolics
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I used to love cooking but it is hard when you’re running in to replace the dummy every ten seconds š
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So sick of cooking!! Would be easier if everyone would enjoy toast for dinner every night :). Thanks for reading Rachel’s guest post. x
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#Fridayfrolics I cried at the dentist when she suggested I wasn’t flossing enough. Looked at her, told her I didn’t have enough time to brush my hair, let alone floss more, then cried and ran away. Love your post.
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ahahaha!! I would assume you didn’t visit that dentist again ;)? Flossing does take FOREVER!!! Funny. Thanks for reading Rachel’s guest post. x
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I am an occasional flosser myself. Something’s gotta give when you have kids!
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Totally, don’t even get me started on the time required to take a shit without an audience!
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I nearly cried at school sports day. I don’t even know why! Thanks for linking up to #FridayFrolics
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PMS maybe? hahaha! That’s a bit funny. Thanks for hosting. x
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I don’t think that picture of Kim has ever been put to better use! 14 would totally get me too. So sad, even if hippos are a bit scary… #fridayfrolics x
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It’s a good one huh? Thanks for reading Rachel’s guest post. x
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I was stupidly watching National Geographic again the other night and this time it was a baby elephant that hadn’t had enough to eat on the long trek to wherever they were going and it just laid down and died. And it’s mama stayed with it and let the group go on without her. So she probably died too. National Geographic has it IN for me, I swear!
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10 and 13 e-v-e-r-y t-i-m-e.
That pic of Kimmie. Genius.
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Best pic of her! Thanks for reading š
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I’m with Kelly. There’s nothing wrong with toast and wine for dinner. Love that pic too!
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Excellent post. I’m crying Because I Am. Okay!
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Quite a few reasons there! I can’t lie and say I get *all* of these, but I’m a big softie myself, even more so since Baby L came into the world. My eyes are literally a river whenever I watch Long Lost Family. Hell, Don’t Tell The Bride even got me earlier today.
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Wow, you are a softie :). Yes, it’s true….having kids makes you cry at some strange stuff! Thanks for reading Rachels Guest Post.
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